Just listened to this amazing podcast on relationships and this is some awesome points that came out of it! Highly recommend listening to it! :)

‘lf you think about sleeping with someone more than feeding them, you are lusting over them rather than loving them.’ ‘A jealous girl is an insecure girl’ ‘If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love somebody else’

Anyway it’s quite late and should sleep now! Love and peacee to zee world! xxxx

This is going to be ridiculously short because although i am in the very loving mood right now, i am also surrounded my 75183 pieces of work which needs to be done and i have abandoned it to show love love to people, which i do not regret however my school are going to hate me… just a little more ;)

ANYWAY

A lot of conversations i’ve seemed to have had with people recently have made me very sad because the only way they feel loved is by being with a certain person and obviously thats lovely etc, however the negative of this is that all humans fail at some point, you’re going to be rejected, feel unwanted, not good enough etc… and this is going to hurt so much more when your whole being is relying on one individual!

You need to love yourself before you can love others and you’ll never be able to trust they love you if all you see is negatives in yourself, so embrace who you’ve been made to be, don’t try and be someone else because thats going to affect everybody because we need people likeyouin the world!

If you feel unloved and unwanted the likelyhood is you have not found someone who uses their little brain and appreciates you for who YOU are! Do not ever change for anybody else becauseYOU ARE INDIVIDUALand somebody is probably wanting to be you, in the same way you want to be someone else!

Your individual-ness can help change a world of broken-ness, you were made that way for a reason, so stand up and be who YOU ARE, not who you think YOU should be!

love love love love.

“You will always lose when comparing yourself to others because you can only see the good in them, however you see the good and bad in yourself because obviously you know yourself pretty well”.

That quote is one of the awesome things i learnt at onelife and it is so so true i’m not sure why i was so blind to it before but i was, and yeah I still get a bit envious of people, but then i remember that ^ and am kinda like to be honest a lot of weaknesses people have are not obvious things so who am i to judge that they are perfect and have perfect lives anyway! Oh and theres no such thing as perfect anyway, so just embrace who you are, be true to yourself… its better to be hated for who you are, than loved for who you’re not! However i’m pretty sure people would hate you because humaaanss are beautiful!!

Peace and huggles to da world guys <3

p.s, Sorry this is really short… I am currently procrastinating my essay! So yeah Xxxx

Okay!!

Money is a massive deal at the moment for almost everyone, maybe not for the queen, but anyway.. everybody’s so stressed out because either they’ve lost their job, they can’t find a job, university is going to cost too much, a gap year is going to cost too much etc etc, i mean how can you ever be happy when theres all this stress going on, WELL WELL WELL…

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The society we live in revolves around money, constantly it’s the only thing we hear about, people gambling money, people wanting the desginer clothes, the latest car, latest holiday, all of these add so much pressure on people to live up to OTHERS ‘standards’, just think.. if everyone had equal amounts of money how much happier would people be.. there would be no need to strive for more than what you’ve already got because everyone would be equal.. having all of the luxuries above does not add any value to who you are as a person!!

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You need to be comfortable in who you are as a person.. people think that buying all this crazy stuff will make them happy when actually it might do for a while but its not fullfilling because you will just want more and more. If you feel comfortable with who you are, then you know people are going to want to be friends with you etc because you’re YOU!! There is a huge pressure in schools to be wearing the ‘expensive clothes’, no matter how cheesy it sounds beauty does come from within and it’s true! Once you are happy within yourself and are comfortable with your personality you’ll have confidence to dress however you like and know that the people love you EXACTLY how you are and if they don’t they clearly have their own insecurities.

 3:

Everybody has individual gifts which money can’t buy and are perfect for the individual person and loads of people think they’re not gifted because they don’t have a really obvious gift like art, music or sports or something and I know that personally i’ve spent most of my life everyday being all meh because i’m not somebody else or i’m not talented but actually i’ve come to realise now that gifts are in different forms and actually listening, offering advice, talking etc are all gifts so use them to the advantage of others- which is why i’m blogging. Striving after other people’s gifts is just going to end up making you feel jealous and rubbish and also completely takes your eyes off the gifts you’ve been given!

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As you begin to get older the value of money becomes less in the fact we can’t buy as much for your money but also becomes more important because thats what we need to live, i read a facebook status the other day saying -

’ watching all the children getting so much for their £10, then i go to the petrol station and only just get out of the red zone’

This is so so true.. and £10 to us won’t even buy us a piece of clothing anymore, so it just gets spent on rubbish which isn’t even appreciated however £10 to someone who is homeless could literally pay for like 5 days of food, so use the money you do have wisely!

ANYWAY, remember beauty is from within and every single person is priceless because they are so individual and unique- embrace your awesomeness and GO! <3 love love love!

Hey ho guys!

Right so basically I haven’t used tumblr in ages!! So all the earlier posts are really old and random and yeah, ANYWAY!

From now onwards I am going to blog about relevent stuff for everybody else because i am in a really loving ‘i want people to love each other mood’, so i want to start sharing some love for everybody through trying to help people, even if it’s like one person every year… its better than nothing and that one person is worth all the time in the world because they are LUSH! <3 Anyway yep thats the deal..

You can also anonymously ask questions and advice and woo :)

Peace out <3

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